What Are You Preparing For?
As humans we prepare for many things – sometimes adequately, sometimes not – however there is an unconscious preparation that often thwarts the things we prefer to be prepared for (like more money, greater health, relationship fulfillment, etc.) and this unconscious preparation frequently goes unrecognized. This unconscious preparation begins before we even lift a finger […]
Nobody’s Victim
What are you the victim of? The idea of being a victim registers differently for different people. Some have experienced circumstances that reflect the conventional connotation of that word. Others are defiantly adamant that this is not, or will not be part of their experience (again, relating to the conventional context of the word). However, […]
Shifting the Paradigm of Your Experience
A paradigm, as defined in the dictionary, “is a distinct concept or thought pattern,” so it is no wonder efforts to effect change in one’s life can often amount to “moving the deck chairs around on the Titanic.” In other words, change, however sincere, can only amount to temporary adjustment if it is within the […]
Readiness vs Potential
A client arrived at my office recently distraught over a two-month dating experience that fizzled in the midst of what the client thought were very promising possibilities. This client echoes the frustration of many regarding burgeoning relationships that stall or simply just end. This relationship pitfall – finding one’s self involved in a relationship that […]
Self Love Courage
Self Love Courage? What is it? We tend to feel or think we have to discipline ourselves to follow through on matters to exact a greater degree of progress with our aims and goals. Yet this very idea of discipline often creates resistance to follow through because the need for discipline usually emerges from feelings […]
Get Naked!
Get Naked? What does it mean. Why i said it? Think that when you remove your clothes to shower or bathe (or do other things) that you are naked? Uh, uh – think again. Most often you’re still “clothed” in the chronic thoughts, perceptions and attitudes that have been forged from your past and your […]
How to Take a Quantum Leap in Your Life
Ready to expand your living? Ready to expand the quality, the abundance, the vitality and, or the relationship satisfaction in your living? Then you are ready for a quantum leap. In fact, if any (or all) of the aforementioned areas of living are in need of expansive expression then it requires it. The term ‘quantum […]
Neutralize This and Soar!
Neutralize This and Soar? and In a recent hypnotherapy session with a client I assessed a critical juncture in his process of empowering his capacity to fulfill his desires. I recognized that his self-perception had not caught up with his readiness to express more in his life. Many want to express more with their lives […]
How Much is that Man in the Window?
Law of Attraction – Really? Recently, a friend received the perfect pet dog through circumstances she did not need to facilitate. She has been mulling this desire over a year now just for the kind of dog she received. The dog was the type she always thought she’d get if she ever decided to; right […]
False Notion of Failure
“We learn from failure.” “It is failure that causes you to grow.” These statements that attempt to put perceived failure in perspective have been validated by many people, however for most, it still doesn’t make the prospect of failure or the experience of it any easier. Often these sentiments become a temporary consoling salve on […]
